No, I’ve never really seen the point. For the longest time I didn’t want to interact with other ponies at all, save a few I looked up to, let alone get involved in romance and all that.
Granted, you could argue that since I used to think friendship was silly too until I met the right friends, it’s reasonable to assume I just haven’t met the right special somepony yet. However, attraction is something that’s more inherent and manifests as you transition from filly to mare, and given that I still haven’t experienced it, my going assumption is that I never will.
Some ponies just place too much importance on the whole thing. There are other things in life, you know, like books, and friendship, or countless other things you could do with your time! Not everypony has to care about romance.
The worst thing is when ponies badger you about it or try to set you up with somepony. That is not being a good friend, frankly it’s disrespectful and selfish. Interfering doesn’t end well either, last time some fillies tried that they almost reduced two ponies to blithering idiots because they though everypony had to have a special somepony.
